Reading for Today:
Proverbs Chapter 31
Gold Nugget
Verse 30-31: “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but
a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her
hands, and let her own works praise her in the gate.”
Commentary
Do you know a beautiful woman? What is it about here that
makes her beautiful? A woman that has outward beauty is highly sought after.
This is nothing new. A beautiful woman is the subject of many magazine covers,
TV commercials and all around recipient of all the attention. This is the way
of the human race. Women that may not fit into our culture's definition of
beautiful may have suffered on the short end of this stick. When short hair is
in, women with long hair are deemed less beautiful. When tans are in, women
with light skin are deemed less beautiful, etc. Our culture decides what is
beautiful in a woman and the women of our culture scurry to adhere to its every
whim.
What truly defines beauty in a woman? In reality, this
can be dependent on the interior of a woman. Yes, inner beauty does matter even
to men. Let me explain through a couple of Neanderthal examples. Some men find
woman who have an "earthy" style as more attractive than, let's say,
a fancy salon styled hair do with the latest makeup trend and designer clothes.
This particular man interprets this woman as having natural beauty and seems
more authentic. Maybe he would see her character as being someone who would
care about the more important things in life than her being so focused on the world.
Another man is attracted to the woman who drives a truck and wears camo. As
funny as that sounds, he finds her personality beautiful because she shares his
interest. Yes, even a woman's outer beauty can be deemed greater by the way the
man sees her inner personality reflected in her outward appearance.
It's what's inside of a woman that truly defines her
beauty. Consider this passage:
Wives, likewise, be
submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they,
without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe
your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. Do not let your adornment be merely
outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— rather
let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a
gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. For in
this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned
themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, (1 Peter 3:1-5)
Prayer
Lord, help us to remember that we are defined by your
standards and not the world's. Help us to conform to your Word and let our
culture have their standards without dictating to us who we are. Let our
obedience to you define our beauty and our character. Amen
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