Showing Divinity

Reading for Today: Proverb Chapter 11

Gold Nugget

Verse 17: “The merciful man does good for his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh.”

Commentary  

When someone has wronged you we typically put them on our short list. So many violations and then they are out of our life. Where did we get the okay as humans (who all err) to start even keeping a list? Mercy is better defined as “controlled” forgiveness. Basically, when we have a “right” (and I use that term loosely) to be angry and cut someone out, we as Christians show mercy by choosing to overlook a violation. That is to say, we don’t even charge their account. There is of course a wise time and place where we have to draw a line and protect ourselves and our family, but where we draw the line and where God would draw the line are usually two different locations. To forgive is to show mercy.  The old saying, “To err is human, to forgive is divine”, although not scripture per say, it is scriptural none the less. Today’s “gold nugget” speaks on this very subject. “The merciful man does good for his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh.” 

One night I was in the backseat letting my daughter’s husband (boyfriend at the time) drive us home. We went through an intersection kind of fast, this while another car looked as if they weren't going to yield. I expressed my concern for what had happened. His response was, “We had the right of way”. I (half joking, half serious) replied, “Yeah, and they can put that on our tombstones.” The point is, we don’t always have to be right and someone else doesn't always have to be wrong. Sometimes we need to be merciful to those that err and show the divine character of God.

Prayer

Lord, there are those that (in my mind) are not deserving of my tolerance and mercy, but I know that I am just as undeserving of your tolerance and mercy. So for that, I conform to your Word that says, “If I will not forgive others, you will not forgive me”. Amen

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